When you say the phrase “keeping a secret” most people immediately think of deep, dark, mysterious or bad topics. Or “What do you have to hide.”
But really secretiveness is just maintaining confidentiality.
And the trait of secretiveness is easy to identify in handwriting.
“Is this person telling the truth? “
This is one of the commonest questions people ask.
And yes, handwriting does show honesty and deceit clearly.
Self deceit is pretty self explanatory in some ways. It obviously means that the person is fooling themselves and addressing things realistically.
But if you are seeing the world through rose colored glasses, how to you know that you are doing it? After all, you look out and see everything looks fine. How can you know that they way you are seeing things is not how things really are?
There are of course many ways to do this and depending on the severity of the situation counselling may be the answer.
Many people comment on their signature being different from their handwriting. They often ask what it means or if it means anything.
Yes it does mean something…
A difficult word to tie down. It means something different to almost every individual on the planet. And it means different things to the same person at different times.
But one thing is common for all. It is a mindset. The determination to do whatever it is that will give you the feeling of achievement.
Some people have more of it in life than others. Some people equate it only with financial gain. Others achieve everything they want in life without earning a penny.
What is the difference between the person who has gained this elusive quality and the one who has not?
Do you suffer from low self esteem? Do people tell you that you underestimate yourself? Or do you feel that you could do so much more if only you had the self confidence?
The lack of self esteem can hold you back from living the life you want to live, of achieving what you want to achieve and from being happy and fulfilled.
Motivational books and tapes flood the market – all with the same message; feel confident and you will succeed. Believe in yourself and you will find the road to money and success.
But it’s easier said than done. How do you make yourself believe in yourself if you don’t already do so?
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Anon
The basic key is to just be friendly! No mystery, but also no hidden agenda, no hooks and barbs.
We all are drawn to people who like us. There may be some people who like us who we don’t like in return. But on the other hand, it’s hard to like someone if they don’t seem to like you.
Some people just naturally make others feel liked and appreciated.
By changing your writing and practicing the new strokes till they become your natural way of writing, you change your behavior to match the new writing. This is called Graphotherapy.
In handwriting, independence comes in three shapes and sizes, each with its own distinctive strokes and each with its own distinctive meaning.
You may have all.
You may have one.
You may have two.
You may have none of these strokes.
Check your writing to find your independence rating.
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