Secretiveness: Can you keep a Secret? Quick Tip #12

When you say the phrase keeping a secret most people immediately think of deep, dark, mysterious or bad topics. Or -What do you have to hide?

But really secretiveness is just maintaining confidentiality.

And the trait of secretiveness is easy to identify in handwriting.

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Honesty and Deceit

“Is this person telling the truth? “

This is one of the commonest questions people ask.

  • They ask it of themselves.
  • They ask it of others.
  • They ask it of me when I am looking at handwriting.

And yes, handwriting does show honesty and deceit clearly.

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Self Deceit: the why, the how and the solution

Self deceit is pretty self explanatory in some ways. It obviously means that the person is fooling themselves and addressing things realistically.

But if you are seeing the world through rose colored glasses, how to you know that you are doing it? After all, you look out and see everything looks fine. How can you know that they way you are seeing things is not how things really are?

There are of course many ways to do this and depending on the severity of the situation counselling may be the answer.

Handwriting can help identify Self Deceit.

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Success Self Help


A difficult word to tie down. It means something different to almost every individual on the planet. And it means different things to the same person at different times.

But one thing is common for all. It is a mindset. The determination to do whatever it is that will give you the feeling of achievement.

Some people have more of it in life than others. Some people equate it only with financial gain. Others achieve everything they want in life without earning a penny.

What is the difference between the person who has gained this elusive quality and the one who has not?

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Overcoming Low Self Esteem & Building Self Confidence

Do you suffer from low self esteem?  Do people tell you that you underestimate yourself?  Or do you feel that you could do so much more if only you had the self confidence?

The lack of self esteem can hold you back from living the life you want to live, of achieving what you want to achieve and from being happy and fulfilled.

Motivational books and tapes flood the market all with the same message; feel confident and you will succeed. Believe in yourself and you will find the road to money and success.

But it’s easier said than done.  How do you make yourself believe in yourself if you don’t already do so?

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People Skills: How to Like and be Liked

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Anon

People Skills:

The basic key is to just be friendly! No mystery, but also no hidden agenda, no hooks and barbs.

We all are drawn to people who like us. There may be some people who like us who we don’t like in return. But on the other hand, it’s hard to like someone if they don’t seem to like you.

Some people just naturally make others feel liked and appreciated.

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Graphotherapy: change your life

How to Change your Writing and Change Your Life with Graphotherapy

By changing your writing and practicing the new strokes till they become your natural way of writing, you change your behavior to match the new writing. This is called Graphotherapy.

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Show your Independence

In handwriting, independence comes in three shapes and sizes, each with its own distinctive strokes and each with its own distinctive meaning.

You may have all.

You may have one.

You may have two.

You may have none of these strokes.

Check your writing to find your independence rating.

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