Have you ever considered that your writing will show how aggressive, assertive or passive you are?
Aggressive, Assertive or Passive: Your Writing Tells. Your handwriting is body language, and just as your other body language will show whether you are aggressive, assertive or passive, so will your writing.
You don’t have to be Irish to have the Gift of the Gab
But with St. Patrickâ€™s Day in March, our thoughts turn to shamrocks, the â€œluck of the Irishâ€ and the â€œGift of the Gabâ€.
If you are Irish then a very happy St. Paddy’s day to you.
However that said, weâ€™ll leave the Irish to their luck and their shamrocks, and concentrate here on the gift of the gab, which in less colloquial terms would be identified as persuasive communication skills.
Here is how to identify just who has this sought after gift, who has not, and how it will be used.
Without ever meeting the person in question.
How?Â By looking at their handwriting. So dig out those Valentineâ€™s from last month and check them for â€œIrish-nessâ€.
Jealousy when seen in a small child, whose family has just grown to include a new baby, is easily identifiable as an insecurityÂ The child is worried that there won’t be enough love and attention to go around, and that they will receive less.
In adults it can be harder to recognize, but it still has the same roots. Someone else has, or is perceived to have, something the jealous person wants.
Identifying jealousy in your own or someone else’s writing can help deal with it.
Knowing from where the behavior stems makes coping with it more possible.
Self deceit is pretty self explanatory in some ways. It obviously means that the person is fooling themselves and addressing things realistically.
But if you are seeing the world through rose colored glasses, how to you know that you are doing it? After all, you look out and see everything looks fine. How can you know that they way you are seeing things is not how things really are?
There are of course many ways to do this and depending on the severity of the situation counselling may be the answer.
Websterâ€™s Dictionary describes procrastination as â€œto put off doing something that should be done, dawdle, delay.â€
In handwriting there is a trait called procrastination, that means just that: to put off, dawdle or delay.Â But it is not the only trait that illustrates this behavior.
That is one of the amazing (and useful) things about handwriting analysis, that is can show you, with a clarity that nothing else I know of can, from there the behavior originates and what is the underlying cause.
Here are eight other traits that can hold you back and “masquerade” as procrastination.Continue reading →